A brief snippet from Jake Colsen's book:

"Institutionalism breeds task-based friendships. As long as you're on the same task together you can be friends. When you're not, people tend to treat you like damaged goods. Now you know what it's like from the other side and one of the big things Jesus is doing in you now is to free you from the game, so that you can live deeply in him rather than worrying about what everyone else thinks about you."

Simply Beautiful!

Peace!